tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9203077889905915553.post2997989866779278524..comments2023-10-30T04:06:45.798-07:00Comments on arduous blog: Weddings and Feminismruchihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17043512641324366469noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9203077889905915553.post-90749149209431993412011-01-13T09:25:31.964-08:002011-01-13T09:25:31.964-08:00I'm a man. My wife and I got married in May 20...I'm a man. My wife and I got married in May 2008. And at the time we felt the same way. We were constantly making excuses for our equal-planning behavior by telling people we're just not the typical bride/groom.<br />I had very specific demands, and so did she. But the strange thing about it was that if we were each to independently plan everything without the other person, it would have turned out basically the same. And I chalk that up to our ultimate compatibility.<br />My wife reads all kinds of blogs, and actively comments and participates, but I usually don't comment... until today... right here. <br />My excuse is I'm a man, and men don't typically participate. <br />But if a groom doesn't care at all about the wedding, how can he truly say he cares about the bride?Braden Crocketthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17740664226734959709noreply@blogger.com